I’m glad you stepped back.
I’m not an expert on the three schools you mentioned but all are at the top of the heap.
Perhaps you should find a school that is laid back. It doesn’t need to be tippy top. It needs to be the right environment for you.
Maybe it’s a William and Mary or Vanderbilt.
Maybe it’s a private that is 2nd or third tier - perhaps out in a place where it is the town such as Grinnell. Or a school that has a strong wellness program such as Connecticut College.
I would stay away from quarters - I know someone at Denver and while it’s less classes it’s really fast.
Focus on you - that’s far more important than a big name.
Best of luck.