<p>U. Richmond is smaller than 8000 undergrads, and has a reputation for being preppy. Otherwise it meets the OP’s criteria. They won a national football title in their division a couple of years ago. A beautiful campus, very friendly students. When I visited with my S, we both liked it a lot, despite the preppiness. </p>
<p>Richmond is less selective than Wake Forest, Tufts.</p>