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<p>I can tell you why I grew to hate it. I always disliked the “S” part and never cared about “T” or “E,” but I loved the “M.” LOVED it. I was an exceptional math student in high school and had great support from some fantastic teachers. It was my favorite subject by far.</p>
<p>What happened was that I got to my “top-tier” college, and walked into my math class in the engineering building on the first day, and saw that a) I was one of a small number of female students and b) I was one of a small number of white students. I had been planning to take the class for fun, just to fulfill a requirement. But I saw the curve–a mass of earnest, brilliant-looking Indian and Asian kids, mostly male–right in front of me. I knew, at that moment, that I didn’t have it in me to compete. It wouldn’t be fun. And I didn’t NEED that level of math for my major. So I switched to a really stupid programming class for COBOL/BASIC that also fulfilled my distribution requirement. </p>
<p>That was the day I checked out of math and put my “love” aside. And now I don’t even balance my checkbook. Sad.</p>
We are very proud of her.</p>