<p>I don’t think it makes any sense whatsoever to speculate on the quality of admissions at MIT over the past several years and it certainly makes no sense to compare one student over another. At ANY college one can probably find countless examples of one person getting rejected and another being admitted with apparent lower stats. What is missing is the “whole picture” - first, the complete package of the individual applicant, including essays, recommendations, outcome of interviews, etc., as well as the entire admitted “class”. This “my student is better than yours” or even “my application was better than his/hers and he got accepted and I got rejected” is inappropriate, etc. I would think that if the “quality” of the admitted class really did decline under Jones’ tenure that professors would have been speaking up about the quality of freshman students in their classes, or some other evidence would be coming out in the numbers (graduation rates, etc.) and that hasn’t happened, or if it has it’s not evident to me. </p>
<p>Sewbusy, thanks for that, but, it works on me nevertheless. I even sort of think that delaying providing a bio on request or for that matter designing one in the manner we have - intentionally architecting the page layout so that it appears as if we simply ran out of room before getting to the point where education would ordinarily be listed is, well, a different sort of “lying”, if you will. But it’s the best I can do at the moment, and Calmom has pointed me to a more productive and interesting solution. I could never, ever “invent” a degree - I would not be able to sleep at night, plus, I’m such a ditz and so disorganized at times, I would forget what lie I told, get confused, tangle it up and tell some different lie later, goof it all up and contradict myself, etc. - I’d be caught in like three weeks, would not be able to pull it off for 30 years as did Marliee. Can you imagine the effort it must take over that period of time to support the lie of three degrees? I’m imagining, how do you participate in conversations with people that would go down the road of “when I was in college, we…” or “I remember MY freshman year when we…” or “at MY graduation, it rained…” - and so on. I mean, especially on a college campus, casual conversations like this must surely be a normal event, sort of like water-cooler gossip in corporations, so, did Marilee lie casually, again and again and again, on a daily basis? If so, that had to simply take an extraordinary amount of energy, and a strong intent to willingly defraud everyone.</p>
<p>I’m imagining, too, did she have her daughter lie on her college applications? I’m remembering when my daughter was filling out her college applications - in my house, over the years, my communications with my daughter have always been along the lines of “WHEN you go to college” vs. “IF you go to college”, so, over the years, “college” has been this place where everyone goes, period. I never told my daughter I did not go, but I also never told her I did go, either - it was just, college is what everyone does, and this is what you will do, too. </p>
<p>So she fills out her very first application, and, comes to me and says “mom, the form asks for the name of parent’s college, and your degree”. I responded that I have not been to college and have no degree, and that is how she should answer the form. Sort of shocked silence followed; then, my daughter clarified with “you haven’t been to college”??? I simply answered “that’s correct, and that is how you will answer the form”, and, I said it in this tone of voice that conveyed the message “do not question me further, end of discussion” that I am sure every parent has probably used at least once at some point over the course of raising a child (this is the only time I have ever used this tone). So I am wondering how Marilee’s daughter answered this question on applications, and, if it will have some deleterious impact for her - probably not, because I guess the advantage is weighted for students who are first generation college students…still, it makes me wonder what is the potential fallout beyond the person initiating the fraud.</p>