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<p>Well, avoiding discussions as it were a debate about sex in the Victorian era will surely not help anyone. On the other hand, there is always a chance that someone participating in this discussion (or another) might decide to reach out to a family member or a friend to make sure he or she is doing well. Tragedies DO have a silver lining. When something positive happens to OTHERS in the aftermath of a death of a young person, it might make the death less senseless and worthless.</p>
<p>One can respect a victim and still talk about how to avoid further repetitions.</p>