<p>Thank you again everyone for all your inputs and blunt honesty, which I really appreciate (not so much for the petty background fighting though). Thank you for the link sakky (it was one of those referenced at the talk, but I needed a reminder to bookmark it and probably make my homepage for a bit) and it is horrendous what you endured. I think I will take a step back away from the pressuring and after my son has had a bit to absorb it all in, I will then ask him for a definitive decision of whether he wants to stay in the dorm or apartments (the reason for the apartments was because although they may be as far, he would be able to have parking and at least travel within the safety of his car although this may pose problems itself to keep the car safe). I think for the most part the majority of people have made it out fine, and so I’ll continue to stress the safety precautions to him, as he can be a little hard headed at times or just forgetful, and his late night jogs will probably be out the window and be replaced with treadmill runnings within gyms and whatnot. Thank you again everyone!</p>