You are taking the victim mentality.
YOU are the one who filled out your applications. It was YOUR choice what schools you applied to. The only role your counselor had was to attach a letter of recommendation and the guidance office needed to forward the transcript to the admissions offices to the schools you applied to. Your guidance counselor may have been counseling you to apply to more realistic schools but at the end of the day, it was YOUR choice to apply where YOU wanted. Chances are he would have written one letter of recommendation that would have gone to all the schools you applied. Very few guidance counselors have connections with the tops schools so they don’t have the ability to influence admissions.
Let this be a lesson for the future to move forward with what truly is in your control and what YOU want.
Personally I think your counselor was giving you sage advice. We often tell kids, “you can do whatever you want” when in reality, you can’t.