<p>OK… let me preface this by saying I am asking these questions more from a curiosity perspective, as opposed to looking for advice to give my daughter. She will not look kindly upon my trying to tell her what to do, given I’ve now only been to Boston twice. </p>
<p>So, she will be moving into an apartment with two other friends, one of which she lives with right now. Both her roommate and the other friend grew up in Boston suburbs, so they know the area, although this is the first time any of them have had to do the apartment switch thing on 9/1. The new roommate’s parents still live in the area, and she has access to a flatbed truck for moving. They also can stay with them for a few nights, if needed. The new apartment is only two blocks from her current apartment (moving from Brighton to Allston); she is currently on a third floor, and is moving to a place on a second floor. She also has some rather heavy furniture (a new dresser/bookcase, full-sized bed, a futon (it’s a nice one, so made sturdy and heavy), a 26" TV, small kitchen table/chairs, etc. Her roommate really only has a bed and dresser. When they moved in, my husband went out to help her (joined by a family friend who lives out there), and I hear it was quite the ordeal, as we’re talking two men in their late 40s trying to haul this heavy stuff up three flights of winding/uneven staircases. </p>
<p>D wants husband to come back and help again, but he says he won’t do it. However, we’ve offered to pay for someone to help her move, but she wasn’t very receptive of it. Both her roommates have brothers still in the area that the girls think are willing to help for some free pizza and beer. I’m concerned that these guys will help their own sisters move (who don’t have as much stuff as my D), but might not feel as obligated to help D with her stuff, which is why we suggested hiring movers. The guy at the realtor’s office said if she didn’t line up her movers by last week, they were all going to be booked. So, again I talked to her about it, and she’s just upset that her dad isn’t coming out to help her this time. She doesn’t have a car, although her current roommate does, and is pretty generous in letting her borrow it. </p>
<p>She currently lives on a narrow, one-way street, but at least the new place is set in a sort of terrace/courtyard where they can pull up (although no long-term parking is allowed). </p>
<p>Also, I’m pretty sure she will not go for renting a U-Haul and driving it herself. I think the girls are going to have to all work together and help each other getting out of one place and into the next.</p>
<p>What I’m curious about is, how are these people expected to move out on one day, but not be able to move into their new place on the next day? What do they do with all their stuff in the meantime, and where do they stay if they don’t have family in the area?</p>
<p>She’s already stressed about how it’s all going to happen.</p>