@BeccaW444 - stay strong. If you are interested in being a part of the professional theater world- you are going to hear WAY more than 2 “no’s” along the way 
Remember that there are SO many variables that go into any decision- most of which you cannot control. We always say on CC “Kids end up where they are meant to be” - and I know that sounds corny…but I really believe it is true. We did tons of research to make my D’s list of schools- and I thought we had it all figured out. But as I continue to read info/anecdotes about some of the schools where she auditioned, my thoughts have changed. There are a couple of schools where she was denied that I now think would have been all wrong for her. (I said this on another thread recently- forgive me for repeating myself) Those rejections were devastating at the time (esp b/c she didn’t have any acceptances yet when they happened) but looking back I can see they were blessings in disguise - and maybe the auditors I was so angry with (why don’t you want my baby!!) knew what would work in their program better than I did. Go figure . Don’t give up- the right place for you is out there and waiting.
If you are interested in New York and are looking for a smaller school have you thought about Marymount Manhattan? I also second the suggestion on Wagner- D has a friend (freshman) there who is loving it.