@BFATheaterMom221, Hopefully you’ve already found it, but if not, go to the main Musical Theatre Major page & research - there is a ton of information available. The schools you mention have acceptance rates hovering around 4-6%. Most students auditioning for Musical Theatre, especially girls, have anywhere from 12 (low end) to 20+ schools on their lists. There are schools all over the country that have fantastic BFA programs that also offer strong acting. Look at Wright State University - the Musical Theatre BFA is actual a BFA in Acting with Musical Theatre emphasis.
There are multiple posts discussing training - I found this in a quick search, but know there are more: http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/musical-theater-major/1933780-mt-school-with-emphasis-on-acting-p1.html