<p>Make a value judgement. Porn isn’t a harmless occupation, nor is watching it. He’s not going to turn out well, and it’s best to cut your losses. This shouldn’t reflect on you or your relationship in any way, and anyone who says it does/should doesn’t get the dynamic.</p>
<p>Having said that, I would ask him to stop the interactive stuff “because it feels like cheating”. And it is.If he can’t then REALLY dump him.</p>