<p>crabbylady,
Your H will be remembered by the many, many families he helped. I am so sorry for your family’s senseless loss. We are here for whatever we can do, even if only to listen.</p>
<p>crabbylady,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. What a terrible tragedy and loss. Please come here when you need to and we will listen.</p>
<p>I’m so very sorry.</p>
<p>I am soo sorry for you. If you need to talk, please PM, and perhaps one or many of us can chat over a phone line if it is one of ‘those’ moments when you feel that you can not possibly talk to the people around you.</p>
<p>Please accept my heartfelt sympathy, crabbylady. What a tragic and senseless loss for you, your children and the community he served. My thoughts and prayers are with you.</p>
<p>[Grief</a> | How do I cope after the death of my husband? | Grief | Grieving | Grief and Loss](<a href=“http://thegriefblog.com/grief/bereavement/how-do-i-cope-after-the-death-of-my-husband/]Grief”>http://thegriefblog.com/grief/bereavement/how-do-i-cope-after-the-death-of-my-husband/)</p>
<p>My father died suddenly when I was 17-
I had no idea about the grief process at the time
& it is difficult to imagine the loss of such a thoughtful and caring man as your husband- but I think it helps to share with others who have been through the same struggle.</p>
<p>I think it is OK to go numb for a time,( but not with alcohol or drugs- unless with a Drs ok), to give your self a safe place to function. I remember that I blocked it out for a whole summer, because I didn’t know how & I couldn’t deal with his death.</p>
<p>Please allow your friends to help you and your daughters as much as you need.
Don’t be afraid or shy about asking for help- most people are just waiting to know what to do.
If giving specific instructions is too much- as I can imagine it could be- tell who ever seems most appropriate that you need them to take over for you for a while.</p>
<p>OMG! How absolutely tragic.I am soo sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.</p>
<p>How absolutely horrifying. I am so sorry to hear this. You are in my thoughts as well as your daughters.</p>
<p>My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family…</p>
<p>I’m so sorry for your loss, crabbylady. (((HUGS)))</p>
<p>Crabbylady, I am so sorry…this is an unspeakable tragedy. So, so sad :(</p>
<p>I’m so terribly sorry. The article was a touching tribute to your husband. I will be praying for you and your daughters.</p>
<p>There are no words… But my thoughts and prayers are with you. If the link provided is correct, it is a senseless loss that will never be understood.</p>
<p>Crabbylady, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences and prayers go out to you and your girls.</p>
<p>I am very sorry for your loss.</p>
<p>Crabbylady–I am so, so sorry. Your husband sounds like an amazing man–the world is emptier for losing such a good person.</p>
<p>Prayers and hugs to you and your daughters-- </p>
<p>Garland.</p>
<p>crabblylady, it sounds like your husband was a wonderful man. My heart goes out to you and your girls.</p>
<p>my deepest sympathies. DUI drivers (of any vehicle) deserve no mercy.</p>
<p>Oh, you are in my prayers, a senseless tragedy.</p>
<p>My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for you and your daughters.</p>