Do you quality for any of the full ride (not just full tuition) merit scholarships listed here where the deadlines have not passed yet?
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A full ride merit scholarship may be the only way to go to college without the unreliable cooperation of your parent(s), until you are seen as an independent student for college financial aid purposes (usually means something like age 24, military veteran, or married).