Consider this for roommates:
They don’t have to be your friend.
They can be strange.
But they have to let you use your room according to the rules. And you have to let them use the room according to the rules.
- Find out when “quiet hours” are in your dorm. Probably it is 11:00pm.
- Talk to your RA about them having people over late and how you should handle it. Ask what you should do if they won’t comply. …probably it is contact them.
- At 11:00pm, tell your roommates…“I need to sleep, can you take this out in the lounge please?” If they say no, then say “11:00pm is quiet hours. Please take this to the lounge.” If they still disagree, then call your RA.
Don’t expect them to be your friend.
Don’t expect to not adhere to the rules (leaving a mess) but then ask them to adhere to the rules (quiet hours)