<p>I’ve been following this thread for quite a while, and I haven’t post even in the midst of Tuesday’s stress-fest. That this thread has taken a turn for the worst, however, prompted me to speak out.</p>
<p>To the matched students: Congratulations, you deserved it. To the unmatched finalists: Congratulations, you may have deserved it, or you may have not. There is no point in envying the matched students, or trying to limit their flare. Guys, this is college applications-- we’re each individuals endeavoring to do our best-- and some of you look upon the matched with disdain, as if they had something they owed you. Look, the only thing that you guys, the unmatched finalists, can do is to look forward and take any measures to improve your applications for EA/RA. You may or may not get in then, and you may think that life is “unfair.” Life may be unfair, but what are you going to do about it? Complain? Just put your heads up and move along, and stop brooding over things you cannot control and try to improve the things you can. Your life may feel worthless now because of XYZ, but the point in life is to say “SCREW THAT! I’M GOING TO DO WHATEVER I FEEL LIKE DOING!”</p>
<p>There is also a point of concern for the matched students. This topic is about QuestBridge in general, so there will inevitably be both matched and unmatched finalists-- and even those who didn’t even qualify to be finalists-- reading this thread. Because of this, you guys are welcome to post whatever the heck you want. Do keep in mind, however, that constant questions such as “Oh, PRINCETON matched me, so XYZ,” “I was matched with PRINCETON (mentioning this for the 10th time), so —” may nag even the most disciplined of forum readers, not to mention QuestBridge finalists who where, indeed, not accepted to Princeton.</p>
<p>Ten years later you-- all of you, even me-- will be looking back at this and thinking, “Did I really react like this to a comment?” or, plainly, “This is just ridiculously stupid how a forum of intelligent, low-income minorities would bash each other like this.” Guys, MOVE ON! This thread is about QUESTBRIDGE, not about taunting or envying others.</p>
<p>For the record, I myself am a QuestBridge finalist who was not matched with MIT, Princeton, Stanford, or Yale. Am I depressed? Initially, yes. But that just tells me to GET MY ACT TOGETHER and endeavor to improve my applications for the next round.</p>
<p>This post was not meant to be offensive to anyone, and is sound advice from my heart. I am not trying to antagonize or worship anyone, but I am trying to remark on how RIDICULOUS this is.</p>
<p>I hope we can stay on track with this thread-- in discussing QuestBridge.</p>