<p>Pittsmom,
Actually, what happened is that I got on here and in my very first post pointed out the difference between a scholarship and an honor society. Apparently you and MommaJ had already appointed yourselves the “scam” experts, so then you both started personally attacking me. So I totally disagree that you treated my opinion with any respect at all. As soon as I said it wasn’t a scam, you went back and forth making false claims and accusations about why I think it’s okay to join a society for membership benefits. That’s not respectful at all, so please get off your high horse. I’ve only been equally repectful of yours, after being personally attacked and accused over and over again about why I hold a different opinion. And again, MommaJ, read these words clearly, I’m not affiliated. If you want to start being respectful now, then stop making false accusations for one.</p>
<p>And now you’re reprimanding me and saying you hope I AM affiliated because all my posts have been about NSHSS when, in one of my posts I addressed Golden Key, and you, Pittsmom got all bent out of shape because “We’re not talking about Golden Key. We’re talking about NSHSS.” So I said, okay, let’s talk about NSHSS. So pick a side.</p>
<p>And yes, SHE asked if I thought the names were made up. <em>I</em> said no, they’re not. Then <em>you</em> said “WOW! You aren’t in any way affiliated with NSHSS, yet you called the headquarters to ask if the reciepients are real or made up?” and that is what I was saying you need to read more carefully because your response didn’t make sense to what I said.</p>
<p>Lottery, as taken directly from Doctionary.com:</p>
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<li>a gambling game or method of raising money for some public charitable purpose, in which a large number of tickets are sold and a drawing is held for certain prizes. </li>
<li>any scheme for the distribution of prizes by chance. </li>
<li>any happening or process that is or appears to be determined by chance: to look upon life as a lottery. </li>
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<p>In no way does this define a membership fee to an organization for member benefits. Again, I will state, if you’re only concerned with scholarships, then apply to scholarships. No magic fairy is coming to your door with a pile of money just because you sent in your acceptance letter and $60.
You have a chance to apply for the scholarships offered directly by the society, this is true. But it is not the <em>only</em> benefit offered. I don’t understand your complete disregard for the fact that all societies offer a number of other benefits besides scholarships.
Scholarships all have a selection process. The names of the winners are not picked out of a hat, and won through chance.</p>
<p>And yeah, MommaJ, she did a summer abroad with People to People. So I guess that makes us equal authorities on the subject. My point is that I’m sure the Eisenhower estate isn’t suffering badly enough to be associated with a program that apparently you decided they’re embarressed by for the perks, as you claimed.
And yes, honor societies do offer extracirricular activites. I don’t know what’s hard to understand about this simple fact, but earning a scholarship is not the only benefit of <em>any</em> honor society.
You are correct: BEING a member isn’t an extracirricular activity, of course. I never said it was. I said they OFFER extracurricular activites for students. You both seem to be fixated on scholarships, in which case, go ahead and apply to a million scholarships. With or without membership. It can’t be more simple than that.</p>
<p>Yes, there is a correlation with students who do extremely well in school, and those who spend time in scholastic environments. And yes, it is my firm opinion that being in an academic atmosphere, especially an encouraging and rewarding one, helps students do well. From your admitted decision to do no research before your previous posts, to the fact that your acronym spelled ASSS, which is not a word (perhaps Association for Scholastically Sensational and Exceptional Seniors (ASSES) or Association for Sensational Seniors (ASS) would have been better thought out) your “gimme a break” attitude toward scholastic involvement and achievement does not come as a surprise to me.</p>
<p>I can only speak from my own experience, and that’s exactly where any of our opinions come from.
I was at the top of my classes throughout my entire school career. In elementary school I received top scores across the board, including scoring at the top of the nation in almost all categories upon graduation. I received an award for being the only student to never miss a day at the school; I actually liked going and being involved. I find a correlation there.
In Jr high and high school I stayed at the top of my class, including the top ten list at my high school. I then graduated Magna cum Laude from one of the Best National Universities, as listed by U.S. News and World Report, and went on with a 4.0 in all my grad classes. Forgive me, but all I can do is give my opinion on my own experiences, and of those I saw around me. I was surrounded by exceptional students who gave much of their time to their university by choice. So yes, I believe that an atmosphere of academic excellence does attribute to students wanting to excell.</p>
<p>And if posting a reply to you makes me obsessive, then you and Pittsmom fall right alongside in that OCD category, because if no one was writing back attacking me for my difference of opinion, then I’d have nothing to reply to now would I?</p>