I am so glad that we have Florida options (we hope/think!), but her goal has always been to go out of state - partially because of the weather and partially because she’s bought into the idea that an Ivy or top 20 school is the path to success.
While I don’t necessarily agree with this perspective, I do want to educate myself enough to help steer her in the right direction - so thank you for the list and the info. I’m curious as to whether families who do not receive mandated support are typically granted waivers. I guess we’ll have to wait and see. (As a mom, it’s hard to explain to her that she may not be able to attend a school because of a father she has seen once in ten years - sad on many fronts. I get the rationale, but it may be a bitter pill for a 16 year old.)
Anyway, I don’t want to totally discourage her from trying for a OOS/top school, but I do want her to be realistic - not only about her chances of admission but also for a reasonable financial package. Now we know to factor this into the equation…
And in terms of career, she’s not really sure what she wants to do. While she’s mentioned medical research and pre-med, she truly doesn’t know yet (and it’s driving her crazy btw). I would love her to attend a school that can help her find her path - she really hasn’t had the opportunity to explore much.
I think a large public university with a strong honors college might be a great match - Alabama is definitely an option if they continue their NMF aid package - SC seems.more of a financial reach. Surprisingly (at least to me), I really like what I’ve read about UCF’s honor’s college.
Thanks again for all the great info. So many factors to consider. I think as long as she’s with bright, motivated kids who care about school, she’ll be fine.