To user Looking forward, you totally get me. To the others offering parental advice, thank you for your concern. I realize that my child is is still a minor and has been living with a hustler for 10 years who taught that hiding and lying is okay. Please understand that my benevolence that is ”coming out, or showing through” on this forum, is because it’s a forum. I would and have NEVER displayed it in front of or used it against my child. At some point though, the children find out all on their own, Ive seen that happen too.