<p>I just read your other post about this and want to remind you that she’s getting away with her demands because you keep going along with her ideas- the tv, microwave, guests, boyfriend, etc. It doesn’t have to be a “confrontation,” to simply state that you need x amount of space and x hours of study or sleep in your dorm room- and stick to your guns, nicely. You have to be part of the fix. It’s one of the things kids do learn in the college experience.</p>