You need to go to counseling services to get emotionally healthy.
Unfortunately, as others have said, you need your parents for financial information for 4 years. Then you are off and away from them. Earn a degree that will help you to move across the country, away from them.
You’re going to have to avoid the toxicity of your parents, so get busy in school. Go through the motions but get good grades. If they call, send it to voice mail; you’re in college and need to meet your study groups. Find a campus job. Volunteer on campus. There are ways for you to keep busy and avoid having your parents control your college activities.
Firstly though, find a counselor to unramble these years of abuse you’ve endured. Put yourself first by becoming healthy. You deserve a life that makes you feel happy.