We don’t have all the information that you have, but it would be safe to say that you won’t be getting a lot of aid from Top Thirty schools. So don’t apply to too many of them. Much need-based aid is not something you’re likely to get at the Top Thirty because of your family’s income and your SAT scores (good as they are, they’re meh! at these schools). The exception here is an in-state public like UVA or W&M.
You could instead be looking at schools that will give you a significant portion of your cost of attendance in merit-based aid. So schools with low cost and lots of merit. This includes OOS publics like Temple, Alabama, Arizona, and Pitt. There are many others, and you can find them in the scholarships forum of CC.