Financial problem is a common concern for many individuals in this income bracket, for people in this range do not receive generous amounts of grants. Based on your previous comment about the financial burden caused by your brother and considering that you aspire to go to medical school, I would like to inform you on one thing. For medical school, the school you attend for your undergraduate years is not of great importance, unlike if you were planning to go to business or law schools. In addition, you need to look ahead-- medical schools have a net price of roughly $90,000 total. Considering that you will have gone to 8 years of school after medical school, the financial burden will be a toll.
If you have residency in VA, I will say your best achievement and decision will be going to UVA, which is not only the best school in VA, but also one of the world’s most renowned school.
Going to Stanford, Harvard, or UPENN will not make much, if any, difference in your chances at medical school, than if you are to attend UVA, for they are all considered top-tier, and it is how well you do in the college that matters the most. If you plan to go on to medical school, I, being in the same income bracket as you, and having personal experiences myself with my older brother, will recommend you to spend your undergraduate years at UVA, and plan on going to the hitherto mentioned dream schools- Harvard, Stanford, UPENN- for graduate school.