At need aware schools, the admissions folks will see your level of financial need. The admissions folks do NOT see the details of your financial aid application forms at all. This is confidential information and is not released to others. @kelsmom
No. Your daughter will get one financial aid award based on all the information submitted on all of the required need based financial aid submissions.
Your student will receive ONE bill…only one. Separate bills are not sent to each household. The colleges honestly don’t care who pays that bill. That is up to you and the other parent.
Have you contacted the colleges to find out what they want you to submit. I believe you will be looking for a special circumstances consideration. Every college has its own procedure for doing this and the process varies from place to place. You need to find out the process at each college, and send them only what they ask for.
Where were you planning to attach this document you are creating?