Interesting comments here, and I have learned a few things. To answer a few questions, or comments-I know how to research, shop and negotiate; car salesman do not like me as I am tough!
I have Costco, Consumer Reports, Car and Driver, Road and Track, plus others in my back pocket. Loan, if needed, might be the dealer or my credit union; it will depend on the deal. If 0% financing is on the table, I will make a decision then. I know to get online pricing first before stepping foot into the showroom. While I am pretty sure I will be paying cash, not leasing and not buying an extended warranty, I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t missing anything. There are friends and family members that can share their expertise, but I don’t need a man to help me buy a car; I got this! 
I am not ready for all electric at this time as the townhome where I live would need the fuse box replaced, adding another expense. I also might be moving in a couple of years, so don’t want to have to do a revamp again. I am still doing my preliminary car shopping; I haven’t narrowed it down yet. Once I have a few I am really interested in, I will test drive. I am looking at ICE and Hybrid, no strong feelings either way.
Currently I easily can drive 50 miles in a day as it is 52 miles round trip to my daughter, and 24 to my mother and other relatives. It isn’t unusual to go to one or both in a day, as well as running errands. When, and if, I move, it would be somewhat closer to my daughter, which would change my daily drive.
As far as my mechanic, I am pretty sure he is against hybrids as he isn’t able to totally service them. While our family has been with his for 30 years, he has a small shop. He gives us great service, but not unusual to have to wait for a part to come in, especially for my husband’s old BMW. I imagine I will be staying with the dealership with the next car for service, but that also will depend on what I purchase.
I do wonder about the extended warranty in terms of the electronics as @bhs1978 mentioned. Just thinking about the repairs on home appliances and their short life spans due to the electronics; are cars the same? While not what I would want to do, but buying a new washer every 10 years is more palatable than having to buy a new car as the parts aren’t worth the purchase.
Off to continue my research.