Virtually all the schools on your list are party schools…even MIT!!! Look up MIT parties on YouTube. When my nephew was at Tufts, he and his pals spent their weekend nights at the MIT parties because, according to him, MIT has the best parties.
OSU is no less a party school than OU.
You said that you were a NMSF…did you make NMF?? or did you get a rejection letter in January?
How much will your parents pay each year?