Did you apply for Tap? Are you eligible for the excelsior scholarship?
You will be if your income is less than 110k.
It will cover tuition at SUNY. Deadline is July 23, 2018
You should still toss an application at Oswego, where she may get some merit money (which will be stackable). Also look at the offerings at Potsdam(Crane school of music) and Fredonia.
Don’t be afraid to look at the community colleges as they have articulation agreements; there is more than on way to get into a program