Ok. If your parents really will go up to $37, you can do RIT with only the federal student loans. Are you willing to do that? Otherwise, your options are CWRU, Purdue, VT and RHIT. Those are all really good schools. If you love one more than another for fit and happiness, that matters. For career outcomes they are all great schools. You will be successful as long as you work hard and use the available resources at any of them. If you can visit (or revisit if needed) any then that might clarify things for you.
Northeastern and Northwestern are way too far over budget and not worth that amount of debt.
I think they should be stricken from your list, not worth being considered further.
Love the schools that love you back. You have so many of them!