<p>It might be worth saying:</p>
<p>Hey, I am gonna do some laundry, if we do our towels together we can save some $$, and we can throw in our sheets…and then double wash them in hot</p>
<p>or</p>
<p>Hey, I hate doing laundry alone, wanna grab sone stuff and keep me company…if you approach it that way, maybe, just maybe she will go along</p>
<p>Or, say hey, I only have half a load, want me to throw in anything, I hate wasting the water…then you can wash the stuff seperately, the first time</p>
<p>It may mean a bit of extra work, but it is worth it</p>
<p>as for the shoes, no mater how clean a shower is, foot fungus is still alive</p>
<p>As well, say your doctor see that dust is not good for your lungs, and he recommends fresh air, and as soon as you get in the room, open the door, claim some claustrophobia, whatever it takes</p>