<p>Our son attends our flagship school, which happens to be 25 minutes away…in 3 1/2 yrs he’s never once just come home for the weekend just to hang out. In the early years, we’d meet him for lunch on campus about once a month. Now it’s less. Because he’s had an apartment since the end of freshman year, he’s always spent the summers over there and half the xmas break as well. I’ve always said that in the aggregate, we see our son less than many parents whose kids go to school on the other side of the country.</p>