<p>Sarahsmom, You and I both feel that way, but apparently some parents do not. I posted something similar to yours way back at the beginning and some of the responses were a resounding, “that’s your family” in nature. And sitting right here, I can think of a handful of people I know personally who believe with all their heart and soul that their kids would never drink or smoke weed, and would be heartbroken to find out they do. When I was in college, I would have moved heaven and earth to hide any problems from my dad, because he developed heart problems during my sophomore year and everyone basically walked around on pins and needles trying to remove stress from his life.</p>