<p>While I’m not completely happy with the education I’ve had being raised in the USA, I will say that I am deeply happy my parents immigrated to the US and spared me the ridiculousness of the Korean education system.</p>
<p>That said, it’s really a culture thing, in my opinion.</p>
<p>From personal experience, </p>
<p>While my parents aren’t as crazy about “getting 100’s on everything”, they do expect me to succeed and be above an average student. I have brought to date 4 B’s home, and while they do somewhat “scold” me and say I could have done better, for the most part they understand that school is difficult and I am thankful I do not have Asian parents that I know of who will ridicule and punish you for bringing even an A-.</p>
<p>They do expect me to work hard, and work harder if “just” working hard isn’t enough. My entire family is based on the “hard work” ethic, and the cousins that I do have living in Korea exemplify it more than I do. I can honestly say that while I might not be as NATURALLY highly intelligent as some friends I know of, I do bring home the grades because I work for them and I work for knowing whatever I’m learning, and I owe that to my parents and family for giving me that. And I also think that that article in the NYTimes basically makes this point: Korean students are intelligent and much of that intelligence is based off of a high work ethic. Being raised in the US but being of Asian ethnicity, I don’t find that the American education system necessarily pushes that idea of work paying off. In a general sense of American culture, rags to riches, etc. it does- but from what I experience in school right now as a senior, the education system doesn’t push that.</p>
<p>Another thing I have to say is that the US seems to be more of an individualistic country rather than a “collectivist”, family-oriented country. Korean and Asian cultures are very much based on family, and a major reason to live is to support your family and to make your family proud. The norm used to be to live with your parents, even when you were married- the wife would move in with the husband. Once your parents get old enough, it was your turn to take over the finances, the work, etc. and to support them. Obviously this isn’t totally true now, but it is still pretty much the thing, maybe just in a different way. While I’m not saying the US isn’t family-oriented, I am saying that Asian cultures base much of their lives on family and keeping up the family name.</p>
<p>As far as the elitism in colleges go as far as Koreans attending and knowing only the big ones, that is one thing that has always bugged me and partially the reason I am having such difficulty with my parents over which college/university I should attend. I don’t think Koreans fully understand the reasons for an education that is based on the pure thrill of learning and gaining knowledge.</p>
<p>And that’s really all I can think of to say right now.</p>
<p>p.s. I didn’t get into Stanford either, and frankly, am happy I didn’t.</p>