Yes, ok. Thank you Everybody. I will hire the attorney. Not sure if she will expect a down payment, because all of my money comes from him. Hopefully husband may come back home because I do not feel like going through a divorce. My daughter is fine. My son will be unhappy to have to come home and drive to campus. He he has friends and likes the dorm living life. I will suggest he not join social organizations, and just attend class 2 days a week. That way he will not drive so much. I do not mind driving him.
Oh, and I do not know how to access the online tuition bill pay. I have never looked at the website. My husband took charge of everything related to college attendance, money, and grades. If I start asking them how to find this information, they will become suspicious.
My goal is to withdraw son from housing. Get the housing money refund. Then when my husband sees my son is suffering, he will offer more money. That may not work though, if I cannot get money from UC Riverside.