You are all very sophisticated and well knowledgeable. It has been so long since I have had to do things. I feel like a fish out of water. The thing is, we are quite wealthy. My husband makes alot of money, and he is willing to pay all of the household bills. He requested that I sign off on a divorce 2 years ago. I do not want a divorce so I refused. Then last year, he again requested a divorce except this time: He MOVED OUT. He moved out, then separated our finances. He is not going to get away with this.
I cannot work because: 13 years ago, our son and daughter were being taken care of by a babysitter. My son suffered a burn when he was handling a cup of noodles. The cup of noodles fell onto his thigh. He went to the ER in an ambulance! I raged, fired the babysitter, and decided to never work again. My husband said that he understood my strong feelings. My husband has offered some papers for me to sign, he will pay the $5000 mortgage, most of the utilities and both children’s school fees. There was some mention of spousal/ child support for a number of years. But seriously? Who cares?
However I do not want to sign it because, what about other stuff?
My son still has a burn mark on his thigh due to the lack of supervision.
The other thing I did not want to mention is my son is alot like his father. I do not get along very well with my son, because when I begin complaining about our marriage he rolls his eyes.
He is just like his father, and will protect his father’s money. My daughter is the apple of my eye.