Such a shame about Wesleyan! It’s my alma mater and I absolutely LOVED my time there, as did everyone I have met who has attended (including decades ago and more recently, and regardless of major or personality). My favorite thing about it was the sense of community and that all types of people mixed and mingled. I also loved the campus, but it’s true that some freshman dorm rooms look like jails, lol–on my first day my dad joked: “For crimes against the state, you have been sentenced to the Butterfield A dormitory!” But I was so happy there. I’m sorry your tour guide didn’t show you the Wesleyan that I know/knew and love.