On playing the Long Game when it comes to college (one personal story)

Actually, brains don’t full mature until 30.

If stuff isn’t on track by 30, well, what you see is what you will get for the rest of his life. Before then, the switch could turn on any time.

And even after 30 (also before), a person’s mental model of reality has a big effect, and that is something you can change through reading and experience.