And we all know people our age who ended up marrying their drunken bar hookups. But because it “worked out” for someone we know, that still doesn’t mean drunken one night stands found at a bar are how we’d recommend our kids find long term relationships. Tinder is the modern version of looking for a “date” at what us old folks called a Meet/Meat Market (bar). Seriously, old peeps. Your kids and young family members aren’t going to tell you this, but it is what it is.