So it sounds like you’ve made the choice, together, to go to Emory/Oxford, @4Hurley? If so, congratulations! Look for my handsome but quiet, 6’2" slightly barrel chested, nephew, with dark brown long bang-y hair and big brown eyes. He shy, but a sweetie! He applied there, ED, and is very happy to be attending. I think your family and D will find that it was well worth taking on a modest amount of debt! Again, Congrats!