I totally agree with @blossom and this statement.
I will add…the student needs to be a good self advocate as well. The student will need to deal with their accommodations. There will not be a case manager to meet with professors and do this. In college, students really need to advocate for themselves. Exceptions might be places like Landmark or Mitchell.
I think this kid and parent need to come up with about 6 reasonable compromise schools. Then have one or two parent picks and one or two student picks on the list.
If this student has a LD and is less than enthusiastic about college applications…try to keep the length of the list manageable so the student can actually get these done.