We also are in the country and out of district. We didn’t run all over. In elementary they only did like one no-to-little-travel sport per year at most. In middle school one school sport + choir, high school one school sport + choir + speech & drama. Unfortunately couldn’t get them to do the same sport but both did spring so we had to split up for events.
DD’17 was older for her grade, so she had a school permit to drive by sophomore year. She and DD’19 did a lot of the same activities. The week after DD’17 left for college, DD’19 got her license.
They were stuck out on the farm together for a lot of their childhood and I think it was fantastic for them. Daycare commented that “they know how to play”. They learned to fill up time themselves.