<p>I think the question you need to ask yourself is - Will emory/vanderbilt be a fit for you? The last thing you want to do is to even apply to colleges and find that is not a fit. What does those schools have that a school (in your 200 mile radius) would not. It is not a question of as much as your mom letting you go, as opposed to what is that going to offer you? I am sure if it is a good fit financially and academically, you may be able to convince your parents. Again, as a parent, they also know your personality and may have some clue on whether you would fit in etc. Remember far off colleges add in more costs and you will only be able to visit 1-2 times a year. Read this <a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/parents-forum/1381588-advice-helping-homesickness.html[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/parents-forum/1381588-advice-helping-homesickness.html</a>
I would also urge you to explore all colleges in your 200 mile radius and you may find something that fits you better and that may be a good compromise. Believe me, it is nice to be driving distance. There are plenty of students I know who would love to visit for a 3 day weekend, thanksgiving etc.</p>