<p>Just came across this advise for graduates written by Michael Josephson and thought it was appropriate for the discussion here:</p>
<p>· By all means, set goals and go after your dreams, but know that your
ultimate happiness will depend not on your plans but your ability to
cope with unexpected turns and unavoidable ups and downs. You may not
get what you thought you wanted, but if you’re willing to adapt, you can
get something even better.</p>
<p>· Don’t ever underestimate the power of character. If you want to win,
don’t whine. Success is made from hard work, perseverance, and
integrity, not luck.</p>
<p>· Listen to both your heart and your head. Pursue your passions, but
don’t confuse feelings with facts. Almost nothing is as good or as bad
as it first appears, and all things change.</p>
<p>· Remember, pain and disappointment are inevitable, but tough times are
temporary. The enduring impact of experiences and the true nature of
relationships are only revealed by time. Persist with confidence that no
negative emotion can withstand your will to be happy.</p>
<p>· Fill your life with laughter, but don’t confuse fun or pleasure with
happiness. Don’t sacrifice a thousand tomorrows for a few todays.</p>
<p>· Live within your means and don’t overestimate your ability to resist
temptations that threaten your relationships or reputation.</p>
<p>· How you make a living is important, but how you make a life is vital.
If you don’t pay attention to your personal relationships, no amount
career success will be enough.</p>