Well we might consider supporting my new college if we feel it has provided me the education that is worth 120%%%, since I am already paying in full. But yes I did come from a "pay to play"system and British boardings school where you donate/connect and you get some hidden “privileges”, or at least the headmaster knows you better etc. The brochure did mention parents’ privilege, annual parents’ meeting etc. and all the board stuff so we were just curious to an extent.