<p>BassDad, I very much appreciate the stories and discussion on this thread, but I’m kind of glad you said that. I didn’t want to burst anyone’s bubble, but no one told me years ago that when I first looked into my baby’s eyes, I would get this immediate, profound brain-lock. All of a sudden, having a really good health plan was way more interesting than saving the world. I truly admire anyone who can go on with their dreams and still maintain a decent family life.</p>