Parents of the HS Class of 2016 (Part 1)

@AsleepAtTheWheel SCEA is a good idea; however, it appears that everyone is now applying early these days.

I think that ED gives a student the best possible shot since even strong candidates shy away from ED because of its binding nature, as opposed to EA. A lot of people need financial aid options, so committing to a school without knowing the numbers is a no-no.

If money is not an issue, I think ED sounds like the best option for a strong candidate. My 2 cents :slight_smile:

@kittymom1102 and @NYDad513 My son has 2 single digit schools. They are both SLACs here in CA. Highly competitive but he does really fit their profile, personalitywise and gradewise. Both really look at GPA and rigor above all else. The match schools are between 30%-60% and state that student interest is important. He has expressed that through visits and interviews. There are also the state schools which students from our high school are pretty successful at getting into - even with low admit rates (Cal and UCLAa and UCI). And we have one guaranteed safety that is an auto accept


Oh and for some reason he wants to apply to, but not go to Harvard
Sigh. Just to see what happens he says. I am really not looking forward to spending money on something he really isn’t that interested in.

@ballerina16 Actually capping number of school helps students acceptance to selective schools. For example, 54 students out of 190 students applied Yale and 12 students got accepted from my daughter’s school. Those students cannot apply all the other Ivies because capping and worries. It helps some students and make 35% of students got at least one acceptance from Ivies, otherwise, I guess acceptance seems to be significantly lower.

@NYDad513 Is it possible for your daughter to apply to a couple safety schools on your own (in addition to those 8 total) that have separate applications, and only need test scores sent and transcripts (no recommendation letters required). Then your school would not have to be involved. Is that considered “cheating” in the process your school has? I just don’t think a HS should have the power to “make” students limit the number of colleges they can apply to. That seems like a violation of student rights, verging on illegal! This our kid’s futures and the students should have control over the process to get from here to there!

Our school sends transcripts, but also will give me a few official ones sealed if requested, and then we can mail them ourselves. I had those done that for apps for summer programs, and also for scholarship apps. My S16 has already applied to a couple of those easy ones, and we just mailed transcripts from home. We didn’t need to ask the school for anything.

@LKnomad, You seem very confident about the process. It sound like this is not your first time. In our case, this is first child, so we have no experience whatsoever. Everything appears so uncertain to us. My son’s list has schools with Acceptance Rate below 10%, schools with AR between 20% to 30%, schools with AR between 30% to 40%, and 40% to 50%. We just don’t know :slight_smile:

@NYDad513, Your school sounds like it knows what it’s doing. Just run your daughter’s list by the GC. I’m sure GC is very experience in how the process works. If she is not worried by her list, I wouldn’t worry too much.

@4kids2graduate Generally it’s ok for kid to apply that number. School makes good acceptance history yet. A little stressful but good for kids who is not at the top of her class.

@Cheeringsection, my D is something of a homebody (for which I’m secretly grateful). She usually spends one weekend night with friends, but prefers spending much of her free time at home with us, and in her room.

I just told her today I want her to eat dinner with us every night, during the week, as much as she possibly can, because this will be her last full year at home with us.

Welcome, @kittymom1102, Best of luck to your son with MIT
 Has he visited UF? He may end up loving it there


My D is applying to 4 mid-sized public schools that are basically safeties (academically and financially) for her. I think one may be a match, but a high one
 The good news is, she liked all of them when we visited.

I’d personally like for her to apply to at least two small LACs, since the apps are free, but Idk if she will, or not.

Close to 60 messages on this thread today. Wow. That has to be some sort of record.

@3scoutsmom – That would be a great trivia question (the answer to which I don’t know): How many states are there that span more than one time zone?

@4kids2graduate – For winter break during my freshman year of college (which was a long long time ago) I drove down from New England to southern Florida. On the way I stayed with a high school friend of mine who was at UF. For two days I thought that I’d died and gone to heaven. My only time there, but filled with very fond memories.

@NYDad513 – Of course there are no guarantees in this business, but having Cornell as a fall back option is something that a lot of kids would die for. That’s great. And given the acceptance stats you listed I have to assume it’s a private high school, yes?

@LKNomad – You’d be better off taking the application fee for Harvard and actually buying some Super Lotto tickets. Similar long shots (especially if it’s a somewhat half-hearted effort on the app), but a bigger payoff from the lottery commission.

@BeeDAre – You might want to clarify that you’re HOPING that this is your daughter’s “last full year at home with us”. Our older girls are in their 30’s, and we’ve already seen some boomerang kids who moved home after college (not ours, others). There are worse fates in the world, but just sayin’ . . .

@4kids2graduate it definitely left me teary eyed. My daughter is my only child and with all these “lasts” we have been having it really hit home.

@asleepatthewheel thanks for information. This year is definitely going to be interesting to see where these kids end up.

@AsleepAtTheWheel
http://newmapofworld.com/us-time-zones-map-7/

unbelievably Texas is all in one time zone:-)

@AsleepAtTheWheel My daughter’s school is a public magnet school. Her school environment is pretty private school setting which is hardly to be found in public schools.

@AsleepAtTheWheel , good point! :slight_smile:

Essay Word Counts: are they strict? My DS is panicking about them


@fretfulmother I also have the same question. Anyway, I heard that CA essay box has word limit and you cannot write more than the limit. If your daughter wrote longer essay, just write a long essay at first and then chop off something less important and make sentence more concise.

@kittymom1102 Nope, first child. The thing that is helping me is my background in educational research. I have a masters degree in education and I was the person for my little unknown college who filed all the stats with the department of education, so I know how to find stuff. Unfortunately, my experience does not reduce my anxiety about the whole process.

LKnomad Sounds awesome! Unfortunately, we are clueless as clueless can be :slight_smile: Our plan is pretty much throw as many darts and see if somehow one hits the target. In other words, the kitchen sink plan :slight_smile: We have schools in the less than 10%, 10-20%, 20-30%, and 40-50%, a little bit of everything. Ah
and a lot of praying and finger crossing :slight_smile:

@kittymom1102 You may have mentioned this already (I woke up to over 30 new posts on my list today!) Have you toured to get a feel for what KIND of college your kid likes? We started close to home, and as my son toured different schools he started to show an interest in specific types of colleges (small liberal arts colleges SLACs). Then we started looking for similar types of colleges with a variety of acceptance rates. This way he is able to do a safety/match/reach - but all similar fits.

How have you chosen the colleges on his list?

@fretfulmother – My memory from two years ago with S14 was that the common app software does not allow you to exceed the word limit (650) – You won’t be taken by surprise – When you view your essay (in the common app) it will be clear that it was cut off.
And obviously it won’t be a problem for your son, but there is also a minimum word count. I think that it’s 250.

Regarding word counts: The common app is very accurate with the number of words it accepts. Not only that but some schools identify number of characters instead of words. I can’t remember if it was in the common app or not but I very vividly remember S15 freaking out because they counted carriage returns and he needed to eliminate 7 characters that he wasn’t planning on.