Parents of the HS Class of 2017 (Part 1)

My son can swim and likes to but he hates getting his head wet. If he jumps in, his head will not go underwater. When he was younger, I would toss him in the pool raising his legs a little so he would go in head first. He was like a cat twisting and turning in midair to avoid getting his head wet. One year I was talking with a life guard and telling him we saw him the summer before. He said he didn’t remember any of us. I tossed my son in the water and he did his usual to avoid getting his head wet and the life guard said that he remembered my son then.

My son also knows just how hard to exercise to start sweating. He then dials it back just a little to avoid sweating. Really is a skill. Needless to say, high school and middle school PE teachers nightmare. LOL

@saillakeerie , That’s a kind of OCD, you think? Your son and wet head? He washes his hair once in a while I hope.

PE in college brings back some memories. We had a requirement for 3 semesters I believe. I signed up for ice skating and it was fun. I thought I was doing pretty well and it was 3 times per week and I didn’t miss a single class for the whole semester. An A for sure, right? Nope, I couldn’t do an inside edge reverse thing-a-majiggy on my left foot during the skills test and got a B for the course. I was so incensed. Not to mention, I aced all my other 1st semester courses! Total 4.0 killer. I have a good friend whose only B in undergrad was ballroom dancing—we still like to tease him.

I’m enjoying the recent posts and discussion. You all make me laugh, what a great sense of humor this thread has! Congrats to the next round of seniors! 9 more days of school here…

@MotherOfDragons The cutoff (above and inclusive of the number) makes it.

Although I suck at all things PE and athletics, I did get an A in aerobics/jazz dance (must have been a pity, effort grade) and it saved my sinking GPA, triple Cs in Calculus, physics, and chemistry (talk about grade deflation, I was just an average student) of freshman year :smiley:

@HiToWaMom He is the poster child for OCD. Math and science kid in engineering. Seems like a good fit, right?

I think we all have “my kid did/does this weird thing” stories. My older one used to make a squeal so high pitched it could crack glass and make the dogs whine-she’d just stand there, grin, and squeeeeeeeeee (cue dogs howling). It was before she was really verbal, too, and she got a huge kick out of being able to provoke such a reaction.

So, yeah, at least, I didn’t bat an eyelash about the wet head story-it was funny :slight_smile:

If you did this to me it would have made me forever scared of putting my head in the water too! 8-X

Re: PE in college

I was an exercise physiology major and somewhat of a jock but never a runner. I could swim for miles but hated to run. As a kinesiology major at A&M we were required to take a really tough class for PE covering all types of physical fitness: distance running, swimming, weight lifting, etc. Since I hated to run of course I did not prepare for the running test.

We ran our 1.5 mile fitness test run on the track around Kyle Field and yes I totally puked my guts out in the end zone right on the “A” where it spells “Texas A&M.” So yeah…I left it all on Kyle Field

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@2muchquan I only started doing that after he had already long established his dislike of getting his head wet and already displayed the ability to avoid doing so. All I was doing was trying to see how much skill he had in that regard. Help him further develop his skills. Isn’t that what any good parent would do? He may not be far from a spot on America’s Got Talent. Which would allow me to meet Heidi Klum. :slight_smile:

So—after my last post I got asked to speak in front of the Board of Regents (and it’s a tense time up here—Alaska’s a countercyclical state, so while everyone else is doing well financially, we’re having budget panics), plus I’m wrapping up loose ends before my trip to Germany next week (I’ve mentioned that before, I think), so a lot to catch up on.

So first, since some asked, what linguistics is: Lots of linguists describe it as the study not of specific languages, but of Language generally. I find that opaque, so instead I like to say that if you were going to teach a robot to hold a conversation with you, you’d have to teach it all sorts of stuff: What sounds to use from among all the possible sounds humans can make (for spoken languages—for signed languages, how to combine them into meaningful units (not just words, but also things like the plural -s or -ing or un- or whatever), how to combine those units into words—heck, you have to even teach it there are are such things as words!—and those words into phrases and clauses, how people take turns in conversations, rules of politeness, the fact that you have to leave some things unsaid but be explicit about others, the way conversations tend to keep a particular topic flow but still have room for drift, and so on. All these things (and more!) are the sorts of things linguists look at. For my part, I’m a sociolinguist, so I look at the fact that we don’t always say the same thing the same way all the time, both at a micro level (which is most of what I do) and a macro level. The micro level is things like that fact that both bat and ban contain a short-a, but the precise pronunciation of that same sound is different in those words for most speakers of North American Englishes,* or that really, if you say the word cat twenty times, you’ll pronounce it very slightly differently each time (since language is an analog rather than a digital system). At the macro level, the example I like to give is that if in some bizarre parallel universe a student wanted to complain about one of my classes, they might do so over pizza and beer in a friend’s living room late of a Friday night, and they’d use certain sentence structures, they’d use certain pronunciations, they’d assume certain bits of knowledge on the part of their hearers, they’d follow certain politeness conventions, they’d use certain words—but if they were giving the same complaint to me in my office, everything would be different, from the sentence structures to the pronunciations to the assumptions about what their audience knows to the politeness conventions, and most certainly the words they’d choose!

  • Yes, I wrote English**es**. It's just something linguists do, since there are a lot of different ways of producing English, and among native speakers of the language, at least, they're all fully systematic and therefore complete (but nearly utterly overlapping) linguistic systems—thus, English**es**.

(And I’m enjoying the NACLO love.)

@mdcmom: My 15-year-old wants to do industrial design, so furniture making—or at least, telling other people how to make furniture—may be in her future. (Her dream job is to be a designer for Ikea—the challenge of making something usable that also fits into a flat box appeals to her.)

PE requirements: That’s the one thing that my oldest doesn’t like about Mt Holyoke, that they require 4 units of physical education. I think it’s a useful thing to require of students, though—exercise helps with both mood and academic ability, after all. Much better than where I currently work, which not only doesn’t have such a requirement, but even severely limits counting physical education credits as free electives.

My university had a swim test back in the day. No idea if it still does. They billed it as a safety issue, that everyone should know how to swim bc one day it might save your life. No biggie for me bc I spent my entire childhood swimming and water skiing. We have a pool in our backyard, so even my 6 yr old knows how to swim. It is a life skill I want my kids to have. (But we live near the beach and water is everywhere for us. It very well could be life or death situation.)

@MotherOfDragons Just make sure your Dd knows that those numbers are guesstimates. We won’t know the real numbers until Sept. We are forging ahead like it is a given. If Sept comes and things flip upside down, we will have to invent plan B.

Meanwhile, Dd has dropped ASU off her list. We visit UofSC on Monday. Visits to OK, Truman, and FSU are in the planning stages.

Btw, curious…is the person on ignore one that is now banned? :)] (I guess that fits for being a horribly curious gossip.)

@Mom2aphysicsgeek oh yeah, definitely. She was very grumpy with me last night about how the finish line appears to keep moving, and why I’m so vague about it.

So I sat down with her and showed her the link that guesstimated what the cutoff would be, what her PSAT number is, what the confirmation score for the old SAT was last year, what her old score was, and what they were guesstimating the new SAT confirmation score needed to be.

She was like, sheesh that’s a lot of work to figure all that out. I’m like I know!

At least she knows now if that selection index number is higher that the estimate, that we weren’t trying to pull a fast one on her. Yeah, like, ha ha, you took the SAT again for nothing! Sucker! Seriously, I wonder if that’s what kids think sometimes :stuck_out_tongue:

@Mom2aphysicsgeek if the ignored person IS now in jail then I was thinking of the wrong person. :smiley:

@saillakeerie My S could not get his face wet, not his head. So we used the shower visor (for babies) to give him shower until maybe he was 9 or so (yeah… we spoiled kids and gave them showers till they were too old mostly to avoid big mess when they take shower themselves)
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It was a big crisis if we forget to take the shower visor for travel, such as grandma’s.

We might have that visor stored in bathroom cabinet somewhere (since you never know he might want it) :))

@payn4ward , Don’t forget to put that one in the list of things to take to his college!

Dear sleuths of CCC: None of the 3 people on my ignore list are currently behind bars, although they should be. :)) According to CC, my ignore list is 12% full. I can only add 22 more people. sigh

I don’t have anyone on ignore, because that is apparently the sort of self-flagellating personality I am. :smiley:

Does anyone else have a child that struggles to fill out their “brag sheet” or resume for their guidance counselor? My D is driving me crazy tonight. She has to get the counselor to fill our a recommendation for a scholarship for a summer program that she is doing. It is due to the GC tomorrow so she has time to complete it before the deadline. It could lead to some serious $ and great recognition. D has been dragging her feet since Tuesday on this form that the counselor needs her to fill out as a “brag sheet”. I am not sure if the GC will use the same brag sheet and/or recommendation for college aps so this is important beyond this particular scholarship.

She said she feels creepy bragging and has no interests outside of school activities. (She has scouts, community theater, and some limited volunteering -most of her activities are school based).

She is struggling with the question about her grades - it asks if she feels her grade report accurately reflects her abilities – her GPA is very high (4.58W/3.94 UW) but there are some B+'s in AP calc and AP economics that she feels are situational and do not reflect her understanding of the material. When she tried to write her reason (that she is analytical and takes her time so on math and economics assessments that are timed her accuracy is 100% but she often fails to finish in the class period resulting in lower grades) she thinks her explanation feels like whining and she should not include it. (She feels pretty confident about the AP exams but those will not be back before this needs to be completed). I have tried telling her that this is the information the counselor is looking for to help her write an accurate recommendation - but this is our first rodeo so we are not sure.

She is struggling to decide which school activity is most meaningful and why - she spends the most time on drama, has the most talent in vocal music, and loves the real world application of model UN -which to choose???

She is in tears and DH and I are frustrated - does it need to be this hard? She just hates talking about herself. Applications are going to be such fun :frowning: I think i am getting a small glimpse of our summer/fall weekends and evenings – ugh!