Parents of the HS Class of 2017 (Part 1)

@paveyourpath wrote

I think some schools have development departments that exist solely to groom kids of big donors and get them into the school. The ivies are all out for us for their trustfundian percentage-once I broke down all the admit numbers and between the trustfundians, the kids of the powerful and connected, the recruited athletes and URM’s, the odds are ridiculously against a regular middle class kid from the suburbs, and it makes no sense to us to try to get a spot. I don’t begrudge those with an advantage to the ivies, but I’m pragmatic and looking to maximize both D’s chances for success and happiness. There’s nothing inherently wrong with rich kids; but I’ve been around the super wealthy and it changes how you look at life when money is no object-it informs so much of how you look at life and what your options are. It can be hard to connect.

@oldbrookie I think this thread is slowing down because the Olympics are on. We’re watching the ladies’ fencing and rugby. They’re currently doing a cool thing where they are trying to recreate conditions that historical athletes competed in, and having modern athletes run/swim in those conditions. Nerd olympics!

@MotherOfDragons Your post of the tragic news in your community should be a reminder to all of us that we are living the BEST CASE SCENARIO every day. Let’s all hug our kids and reassure them that no matter the outcome of this treacherous time of life, we will make the best of it.

My son went to check out RPT and found he may melt in the snow now so I guess it is farther down on his list I guess he prefers possibly to be some where warm.

QOTD: My daughters were born in NY but we moved to CA when they were very young – before elementary school. However last year we moved…three blocks away from our old house, to a prettier one with a better view! It’s weird living this close to our old house, the dogs took a few months to not pull at the leash when we walk by it. This being Southern California, our “old” house was built in the 1980s and our new is circa 2012. :wink:

My D17 is still away being a camp counselor, but today we got my D19 back - she was at a 3-week program called Explo, or Yale Explo, or something. She LOVED it and is already making plans to go back next summer. Have any of your kids done this program?

@nw2this What you said jibes with what I heard from a friend who lives sort of near Denver. She hasn’t heard of it either, and her kids and their friends all want to go to a UC – get some warmer weather – whereas my D17 is dying for green mountains and snow. Small schools are her fit; Colorado College is her dream school at this point!

Is ‘trustfundian’ really a word?

@JenJenJenJen

If you need some safeties, CO does have some small publics (with wue).

For those applying for fly-ins, which ones did you apply for?

Fly-ins…none applied for yet. When D gets back from a weekend away, we are going to discuss Emory CORE and Grinnell Diversity Preview Day.

S asked me for something today, and I said yes but only if he wrote a draft of any one essay today.

I’m not above extortion.

Can someone please remind me how to use bold? I am not optimistic I will be able to follow directions, but I will try.

[ b] text [ /b]
without spaces after brackets

@CT1417 [ b ]Bold Text[ /b ]

Then take out the spaces between the square brackets and you will get Bold Text.

@payn4ward & @2muchquan – thank you! Will try that. Report becoming VERY long (and useless) so may break into three.

I am hopeless at trip reports. Am impressed by those who can record all this detailed info, but at this point, it really all sounds the same. I recorded notes for each school on the 4 x 6 notecards I stole from the desk in the hotel. Each school’s notes fit on one card.

Chicago was WONDERFUL but hotter than blazes, or perhaps it just felt that way because we covered so much ground. Two days of nearly 27,000 steps, per the trusty FitBit. I did not realize there was a beach in Chicago and I have been a couple of times before. Trekked over to Navy Pier, to something beyond Grant Park, took Wendella Architecture boat ride, went down to the beach…wandered a vertical shopping mall on Michigan, which is so not my boys.

Northwestern The campus was lovely. We took the El out from the city, taking first the red line and then the purple. Clean, well-marked trains with audible announcements. Nothing like Manhattan!

The water was a surprise with sailboats, kayaks & SUPs available on campus.

Half the class admitted via ED, so 1000 of 2000. Another 3000 admitted via RD to fill the remaining 1000 seats. Very impressive-looking financial aid (no loans, which is not the case at all Ivies or MIT). 17% of students on PELL. 60% of students receive some FA from total annual FA budget of $160 million.

University consists of six U/G colleges, and applicants apply to one college. Much integration across colleges. Students can taken any of the 4000 courses, 100+ majors & minors offered, plus something they call a certificate which is something less than a minor. Major = 11-16 courses, minor = 6-9 & certificate = 4-6. Quarter system allows students additional class slots if they decide to take four courses/quarter instead of three.

And, I say quarter but it is really trimesters for the students’ purposes (like Dartmouth and Stanford).

The ‘Garage’ is a new entrepreneurship incubator, similar to something I have seen/read about on other campuses.

Son’s verdict: too generic. Now this is not a slam on Northwestern because I thought it was lovely but it didn’t do anything for this CS applicant. Reading about NW and UC before we toured, he thought NW held promise and that he would hate UC. Did not work out that way.

University of Chicago --we were both pleasantly surprised. Son was opposed to what he considers their contrived quirkiness, just based on his reading of the essay prompts and the ‘Where fun goes to die’ slogan, but the students we met were passionate, articulate, and energetic. When we checked in, the student working the computer commented on our hometown as she is from somewhere nearby, and then proceeded to tell us why she loved the school.

The info session was led by a rising Sr and he did an amazing job. No video, no power point, just talking in front of large group. Tour guide was equally impressive. Son stayed for an interview after the hot tour, and found it easy and underwhelming. I think he expected to be grilled about obscure topics. Interviewer was a rising Sr. I did not meet her, but son thought she was nice. This was son’s first interview, so am happy for him that it was not grueling.

Now, the irony of son objecting to a school’s quirkiness appears to be lost on him.

Random things I scribbled: One undergrad college with 5700 U/Gs. Eight components of the core. 50 majors & 35 minors. Only 20% of students double major, probably b/c of constraints of core. (Am not sure why this is not troubling him the way it did at Columbia.) LOR—can submit a third optional one from coach or non-teacher, but only one optional LOR. App fee waived it student indicates that he will be applying for FA. Some merit aid available. (10% of students maybe, but I did not hear.)

We did not wander the Hyde Park area as I have read it can be questionable in spots, but this is something we will need to drill down on more if he were to attend school here. Am now a committed Uber user.

Son REALLY liked Chicago, perhaps more than NYC, but then again, he has never stayed in a nice hotel in NYC, so perhaps he just likes nice hotels and eating every meal out!

On to Pittsburgh, which was even hotter. While we never got downtown (I don’t think???), we did cover a couple of neighborhoods on foot. Had a decent meal at The Porch in Schenley Park and wandered away from the universities looking for a (closed) record store across from Katie’s Kandy (North Oakland maybe?) Walked back past Schenley Park, wandered through the library and the Carnegie Art Museum gift shop. Then drove over to a shopping area that seemed more suburban—Walnut Street.

Hotel was in an area called Southside Works. (They really love naming these little neighborhoods.) We decided to walk to The Milk Shake Factory, all the way down Carson Street. Every third store front offered tattoos or hookah pipes. Excellent ice cream and chocolate but not a walk I would take on my own. It appears that the area on the other side of Milk Shake Factory may be more gentrified. Older son is convinced the area will be great in ten years!

CMU: most annoying info session & tour. Just too long, but I think I was mostly cranky about the heat. I realize why the info session had to be long as they are trying to cover all six schools and I give them credit for that, but the tour went on for an hour & 20 minutes in unbearable heat, and we were not really learning anything new after the hour & 15 minute info session.

The thread of tech runs through every program on campus, even Fine Arts and Liberal Arts. There are only three required courses: two freshmen writing seminars and a CS course—for all majors. Even in the college of Fine Arts, the students are using programming to design and build things. CMU is tech. Son was surprised at how MIT-like it was. I think he loves it more than he thought he would, however, he is not fond of the parts of Pittsburgh we saw.

Very collaborative, interdisciplinary.

The campus is very compact. Just shy of 6000 U/Gs and same # of grads on perhaps 150 acres +/-. I am concerned about campus culture. No centralized dining halls but instead, 30 places on campus to buy meals on this system similar to other schools’ meal swipes but the feel of it seems more a la carte. My concern is that the students will be immersed in their work and just grab food at the nearest eatery, never really coming up for air to take a true break. This is just my own perception based on nothing since the students were not on campus in August. Must make a point of chatting with friend’s son who attends CMU.

CMU essay prompts will be up on CA as of Aug 15th. Students who apply RD can apply to up to three different colleges and receive up to three admission decisions. Those who apply ED can only apply to one college. CMU tosses out 9th grade transcript and recalculates GPA using their own unweighted scale, excluding PE. Supplemental info may be uploaded via Slideroom or that Maker thing MIT also mentions.

They want to see student taking Calc in Sr year, even if he has exhausted the Calc offered at his school. Suggestion was to take online or DE or CC class…anything to show that applicant is still studying Calc.

W section of ACT or SAT not needed. As others, superstore across old or new SAT but not across both. Highest composite ACT, so no superscore.

Overall, a great week. Spent far too much time sitting in airports b/c there were NO lines at check-in or security in NY, Chicago or Pittsburgh. Amazing! We flew at slightly off times. In my pursuit of cheaper fares, we avoided crowds. Each flight departed and landed on time. All transit worked as it should. The forecasted rain never appeared. All good.

Had to edit twice because the last 80% of the above post all appeared as bold. How do you all manage to use bold so effortlessly?

@STEM2017 Well said and the hugging happened here. We all just want happy and healthy kids.

@2muchquan no it is not a real word. No JOTD?

@nw2this S17 applied to Swarthmore fly in program. He may register for Carnegie Mellon’s Titan night program which is quasi fly-in as they will pay the cost for students who are unable to if they qualify.

@MotherOfDragons my heart hurts for those parents and his loved ones.

@MotherOfDragons So sorry to hear about that young man and for the loss his family and friends are feeling.

@CT1417 My daughter also liked the Chicago core but not the Columbia one. Go figure. My impression was that the Chicago core had more flexibility?

@CT1417 I’m very familiar with quarters. All of the University of California Schools except Berkley & Merced run on quarters, so does Stanford, UofO & OSU (top Oregon public schools) & Northwestern.

The standard term for a college/university year in the US broken into 3 sections is Quarter. I know it’s seems stupid but I’m used to it by now. As I went to school at a UC. I was always told summer school is the “4th” quarter if that makes any sense. The year is broken up into 4 parts, most student attend 3 of these quarters. I have not idea how this got started.

@mamaedefamilia – RE: Columbia vs Chicago’s core. I have to say that anything I heard at an info session in April is gone from my brain so I will leave it to my son to look up how each school’s core will impact his ability to study CS and Math. I agree though that Columbia’s core seemed fairly rigid but that may just be because they described it in detail. His college list is rather fluid…

@curiositycat333 – got it! Berkeley is the only UC we visited, and since it is now off the list, I haven’t bothered looking at the UC app. I haven’t actually looked at any apps and am hoping son handles that.

I think I wrote this a while back, but Dartmouth still requires all rising Jrs to attend school the summer after sophomore year, and then leave campus for the fall quarter. This started in the mid-70s when the school went co-ed. In order to accommodate women in dorms, they needed to free up dorm space, so D Term began. Apparently they no longer need the rising Jr class to depart each fall, but everyone likes D term and still follows it. As always, I may have the details wrong as this is just something I recall classmates saying.