UDub alumn here. Know TONS of kids who go there. Also know tons of kids who don’t get in, get waitlisted or do not get direct admit to their majors. About 40% of our current senior class applied.
Interestingly enough, none of our 4 kids are/were remotely interested, including my S17 (who flat out refused to apply) although I will likely make S19 apply. Different reasons for each kid though. Too big for SS11 and S17 and SD14 had her heart set on a program elsewhere that would be direct admit and start out core classes right away. Equally as big though but she’s found her tribe playing club soccer.
In a school with 30,000 undergrads in a major city, you will have commuters. You will also have very large very full dorms, kids living off campus but not really commuting and a very active greek system. Tons of school spirit. The kids we know fall into all 5 categories.
Connecting with faculty will vary by program but honestly if that is the desire, it may not be the place. If connections happen it will be junior/senior year. Classes can be very hard to get and most majors are impacted. If you aren’t a direct admit and are going for a more competitive major, it can be a risky proposition. It is absolutely perfect for many kids, it was for me. I didn’t need to connect with the faculty and didn’t mind 700 seat lecture halls. I was in a sorority and that made the school small and gave me my “tribe”. The happier kids I know there are involved in something, whether it’s greek life, club sports (2 of SD14’s friends play club soccer there), marching band or other. You need to find a way, or most kids do, to make it small.
That said, I have three classes that stand out in my memory as having an impact in my life, and one professor who wasn’t remotely in my major that I really recall (though can’t truly say I “connected” with him all that much. One professor. One. Sure I recall a few more details than that on some of the classes but nothing of substance. Zero help in my major for internships and recruiting. I am not sure how much better that has gotten but certainly I have not seen recent grads having issues getting jobs at all. I have dinner with my sorority sisters every other week, I wouldn’t trade my years there for the world but have wondered at times if an LAC would have been a better educational experience.
My sister did both undergrad and grad school there and really loved her grad school experience. I don’t think it’s any different than most large state schools. I can’t speak to the honors college at all.
It’s a great school, I’m a proud alumn, it just depends on what your child wants and the environment they do best in.