My kid started writing essays a few weeks back, @Samsmom2019 . They’re really great first drafts, but he hasn’t yet hit the topics in his life that I think would make killer essays. We have lots of time, though, and you never know what is going to be useful for a supplemental, so I’m just encouraging journaling and free form writing without editing yet, to get the raw material…
He has had a couple of experiences that I think are unique and interesting, but he thinks are ordinary, or are too personal to put in a college essay. But writing about something that you feel deeply about is a great way to build empathy in the person reading the story, and for a holistic admissions college having that AC on your side is the way to get in.
Orson Scott Card once stated that you have to write a million words of crap before your first good novel emerges, so the trick to being a good author is to get those million words out of the way quickly. I doubt kiddo will write a million words between now and next summer, but every few hundred words that he writes and reviews is an increase in his writing prowess.
The free advice sites that I have been reading (which are probably worth as much as I pay for them) say that an essay about ‘winning the competition and Learning About Myself’ is a very hackneyed essay and will often make admissions officers roll their eyes unless it is written very well.
If the competition is a huge part of his life and he writes about himself honestly, it will work itself into the essay. If he wants to write about “I did this great thing but it’s not the only interesting thing about me”, well, I think that makes him stand out. Don’t you?
I would encourage you to just have him write about himself without forcing the topic. His experience may come out. It may not. The admissions office can read about his titles in the extracurriculars section, but if he is not majoring in ice dancing it won’t be the only thing they want to know about him.
My uneducated opinion is that you should just encourage him to write, now. Once he has several pages of thoughts it’s time to take the raw material and enhance it, then edit it down to what matters. That’s what makes a great personal essay.