Parents of the HS Class of 2019 (Part 1)

DS had senior swag day yesterday, which he forgot about, and he happened to wear a hoodie with all the ACC schools on it. It resulted in some confusion, LOL. DS is one of the kids not headed off to college next year, he is either playing his sport on a junior team or taking a PG year, heʻs still deciding. Yesterday was a little rough but I reminded him that he is on his own path which will help him get to where he wants to be.

As far as matriculation lists, two years ago when DD graduated the parents were so upset with acceptances that they demanded the matriculation list not be printed in the graduation program. That class broke the school record for transfers after Freshman year. Crazy stuff.

@bjscheel congrats on the scholarships!

@Trixy34 @bettzke @momcatof4 and earlier posts that I missed -congrats on decisions!

@momtogkc @eh1234 wow, that’s really early to be out! S19 is out by 5/22 and that seems early.

@4kids4us wow, lots of lasts coming up!

I told S19 this is his last week of being an “only” child. D18 comes home Saturday. I’ll be happy to have her home but they tend to bicker. Senior lax game is Saturday then AP tests start up. I can’t believe in less than a month well be done and relaxing into summer!

Deposit made at Gettysburg. Right now it just doesn’t feel right, but I have no idea how much of that is my mother’s prejudice against the place working on me. I keep telling myself - it’s a great school, we loved our visits, kiddo met some really nice people there, it’s the best of our current options. I have to call my parents later today to tell them about the decision. I hope I can convince my mother not to be poisonous about the school where my kid can hear her.

I suspect she’ll come around. She really does have his best interests at heart.

@ninakatarina - good luck with your mom. That’s got to be hard. I have a friend who went to Gettysburg. We worked together in retail management right after college, then both decided to go to law school. She’s doing just fine for herself, and your DS will also. He’ll get there and get settled and have a great time. And if he doesn’t, there’s always transfer, right?

@ninakatarina Congratulations on your kid’s decision! And good luck with your mom.

My daughter has committed to her choice school weeks ago and finally declined other offers. Have to say that when I saw an email this morning from one of the schools she declined stating that her application has been withdrawn, my heart sank a little. Then I realized that it was because of her declination. Still caused a moment of panic for me.

Congrats on all the new decisions! I’m not techy enough to know how to keep up with each user name from page to page, but I read and “like” each acceptance and am celebrating with you guys as I read.

Senior shirt day is today at our school. Skip day was a few weeks ago, but our skip day is really just a day of service in the community. Kids get their service approved ahead of time. It’s a really rebellious day. ?

Our son’s roommates fell into place last week and looks like he has a great situation for next year. He’s in a suite with one of his friends from here (they became Eagle Scouts together, so tons of time camping together which should help prepare them for being roommates I hope), and two other NMF. S19 and I have talked to one of the NMF and his mom, and they seem terrific. My son and him have a lot in common. We are all super excited for next year.

@SDMomof3 I’m not super Pinteresty, but I went on Oriental Trading to get some personalized water bottle labels that another mom recommended, and found this banner that is amazing. We bought the medium sized banner to hang between our front porch columns for his party. We put one of his senior pictures on it, and I was blown away by how nice and expensive it looks when it came in. Shocked it was only $25.
https://m.orientaltrading.com/medium-custom-photo-graduation-vinyl-banner-a2-13617910.fltr?mode=Browsing&categoryId=551269%201256&parentSkuName=graduation-custom-photo-banner&parentSku=13751321&categoryFromSearch=true&rd=Graduation%20banner

@milgymfam If need any help coming up with some cheap food ideas, feel free to PM me. I work in medical sales and my company gives us ridiculously small budgets to feed people. I almost quit early on because it was so ridiculous, but they pay me well, so I stuck it out. Now 4 1/2 years later, I’m a pro at feeding people on a very small budget without seeming cheap. I don’t want to hijack the thread, but happy to share some tips through PM from what I have learned.

When I was in high school we didn’t have senior skip day (boarding school in the middle of farm country, nowhere to skip to I guess!) but we did have Headmaster’s Holiday. This was a random day in the spring where during breakfast the Headmaster would stand on a dining room table and announce that today was the day and everybody would be so excited.

Of course, like I said we didn’t have much to do until we were seniors and a few kids had cars. A group of us got together and came up with a plan. We were going to get one of our friends with a car to drive us to Providence, RI to stay in a hotel and go see this band called Max Creek who played every week at a club named Lupos and have a fun, crazy time. (It must have been a Friday so we didn’t have to rush back to school.) To leave campus you had to get parents to call in with permission. Most of my friends would just have a sister call and lie or else their parents didn’t really care. Well I knew mine would never say yes so I came up with this long story about how we were going to see the band but we were staying at a friend’s grandmother’s house who lives near there blah, blah, blah. Somehow my mother agreed although she now tells me she knew the story sounded super fishy. We went to the concert and did have a fun, crazy time but boy am I glad my D does not take after me! I mean she likes to have fun but I think of the dumb stuff we did and am thankful she has a better head on her shoulders so far than I did in high school.

@Trixy34 St. Lawrence does have good food, but good food at the hotel?! You must not have stayed at the U Inn - LOL!

@4kids4us Thanks for telling me about the Tulane girls, I love hearing stories like that. I will say the enthusiasm of alumni was one thing that helped sway DH. He did not want her looking there at first because he was so worried about the safety of New Orleans. Little by little we kept running into alums (our insurance adjuster, an old parent friend from our son’s lacrosse team…) and every single one just raved about it. We both feel that way when we talk about St. Lawrence so he felt better knowing how much pride Tulane alums have.

@bettzke1 Congratulations on Richmond! I don’t like actual spiders but for some reasons the UR spider grew on me throughout the application process and now I love it. :slight_smile: UR was the one school that I asked D to apply to even though it was not on her radar. It had everything she wanted except it was smaller than she wanted. I hoped she might change her mind by the time decisions came around but n the end she just couldn’t see herself going to a college smaller than her high school. Oh well - I still have two kids to go, I can try to talk them into it too!

@SDCounty3Mom - I am not creative but I always love when people blow up pictures of their kids from throughout childhood and put them around the party.

Congrats on UTD @momcatof4!!

@pn24601 I know what you mean, I thought the same thing about swag day. It was not heavily advertised at D’s school - in fact she was sure it was Tuesday then one of her teachers did a group text reminding them to wear their shirts on Monday. I volunteered on Monday and it seemed like about 1/2 of the kids wore shirts and half didn’t. I know a bunch who were not wearing shirts who are going to college so I think it just wasn’t such a huge deal there. They didn’t do a picture or anything.

@cleoforshort Haha - I bet he got lots of questions on which ACC school he had picked! I hope you keep us updated on his next year, I would love to hear what he does!

@ninakatarina Congrats on Gettysburg, I hope you all fall in love with it! I remember my junior year college trip, on that leg we visited both Gettysburg and Dickinson. I told my parents I liked Gettysburg better because I thought the brick buildings were prettier than the limestone - clearly I had my priorities in order. :wink:

Well the good news is that my mother seems to have come around and is no longer badmouthing Gettysburg to me. Maybe she did a little research, I don’t know. Just happy to have that stress gone. Plus, they’re making a special trip to our area this coming weekend to see the kiddo’s senior play so that will be lovely.

@ninakatarina - Congrats on the Gettysburg decision. My D17 and I toured it and it seemed like it had a lot to offer and the town was cute. It seems like so many kids who are not totally enthusiastic about a college they will be attending end up loving it in the end and I hope that’s the case with your son. Good luck with the play!

Congrats @momcatof4 !

@SDCounty3Mom - I’m kind of pinteresty and crafty. I’m sure I did a lot more with D17’s graduation decorations than I will do with S19. Ha ha, I made little tiny graduation caps for the straws (going through the middle) and used a lot of mason jars for things. One thing that was fun is that I used a large poster board backed with foam board to make it sturdy and then cut out the center (to look like a giant picture frame) and decorated it. The kids enjoyed taking pictures with it. We will be having a joint party with S19 and a friend who he has had since third grade. This boy has been on both sports teams with S so I have a lot of pictures of them together. I bought a few large blank canvases and will attach several pieces of rustic twine to them so we can attach a bunch of photos to them with mini clothespins. Then the canvases can be re-purposed. We’ll also have some posters and swag from the colleges they have chosen.

My daughter had her own little college swag day today. Her scholarship requested all the recipients to post on social media with their school shirts and the scholarship swag, and to tag them. She was happy to comply and decided to wear the leotard with her college name on it to practice tonight too.

So D19 hit the “no” button on all the schools she isn’t attending last night (except WVU, whose link to decline their offer led to a “system error” page). All pretty cathartic except for WPI, which hurt a little bit.

@momtogkc - I did stay at the U Inn, and it was the best eggs benedict I have had in a very long time! I’m really bummed we won’t be going back.

Swag day was saved by a crafty mom. S19s girlfriend didn’t have any swag from her school either, so her good friend’s mom who lives next door made some shirts. She must have had the iron-on printing sheets or a cricut or something. I have no idea, but he came home with a tasteful HWS shirt. Lol. What I love is that I was thinking of making one for him and he told me not to, so I let it go. He still ended up with a shirt and I didn’t have to do anything.

@Trixy34 That’s awesome! What a nice mom!

@Trixy34 Hah - I like the way you got out of the shirt making without even trying! I’m glad the U Inn food was good, it actually wasn’t that bad 25 years ago but I don’t remember if I ever had breakfast there. There were tons of hole in the wall places to go up there that were each known for their own thing - one place for burgers, one for breakfast, even one that I don’t remember anyone ever ordering anything other than their gravy fries!

@momtogkc - St. Lawrence purchased the U Inn a few years ago, renovated it, and it seems that an independent company manages it. It was actually very nice. We arrived in Canton at about 9pm on Easter Sunday, so there wasn’t a lot going on up there. The front desk said they thought Burger King was open.

A pinterest type grad party snack idea- take a Keebler chocolate covered graham cracker, "glue"it to an upside mini reeses cup, and cut a tassel out of a fruit roll up. We made some when D12 graduated.

We are planning cake pops with sprinkles in the school colors. Probably the only time it’s going to be easy to make brown and white festive. lol

@brentwoodmom congrats on the roommates gets settled. So nice to already know them, or at least meet up.

@ninakatarina glad your mom came around. Hope S gets excited ashe makes more plans.

@dfbdfb it is harder than I thought! Sounds like everyone has that “one” that’s hard to let go.

It didn’t help that his CS teacher was shocked he didn’t take the RIT spot. It had already been a tough decision and didn’t want his teacher introducing doubt!

@Trixy34 nice that it all worked out!

I have a question about subsidized loans that someone here might be able to answer. If my FAFSA EFC is below the cost of the institution, but my CSS calculated contribution iis above the cost of the instituion, do we not qualify for the subsidized loan?