Ugh! I empathize with your struggle. I would find this so stressful. I’d be worried about her overconfidence leading to crushing disappointment if she didn’t get in, yet at the same time not want to rock the boat right now too much and cause unnecessary stress and worry about something she can’t control. I guess, so long as the rest of the list was good - with safeties and targets she likes, I’d probably try to focus on getting her to get all of those apps done well for now “just in case.” And then try to emphasize the reality of the crapshoot the extremely low admissions rate schools are as decision day got closer. That whatever happens with Colby, it is not a reflection on her because she has what it takes, but so do too many kids who apply so like many things in life, luck will be the key factor for her. And, that regardless of what happens I am so proud of her and no acceptance or denial could make me feel different. That she will end up at a fabulous place and be successful just as she always has. Such a tough place to be as a parent though. Savor that Margarita when you have it!
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